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Class of 1954

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1954 Class Notes

2023

Dear Class of 1954,

An email from Catherine Dawson succinctly answered our question about how you lived out 2020: “No cinema, no concerts, no grandkids’ graduations.  More reading, more praying, more sleeping!” Many of you echoed her words, with a few twists.

Anne Carusone Landry looked at the year 2020 with gratitude- grateful for more time with her one and only grandson and his mother, her only daughter.  But apart from that blessing, she washed her curtains twice and painted the wrought iron furniture on her antique oriental carpet, and listed other cleaning and painting and yardwork projects as pandemic activities.

Pat Smith Daley notes what a challenging year it has been, but that she has been supported by a son and daughter living in the area and celebrated her 89th birthday in February at an Irish pub with her daughter and grandson.   She is grateful to still be living in her house but misses daily Mass and coffee with friends afterwards.  A granddaughter was married in Tampa in October and through the wonders of livestream she was able to watch the ceremony. A great sadness was the loss of a son-in-law to lung and bone cancer.

Peggy Inglesby Greenslade, too, is grateful to have three of their four children living within an hour’s drive and for a new great-granddaughter born on January 30, 2021 – a gift following 2020 – bringing their great grandchildren to a total of three.  She and her husband go to Mass in the parish church three times a week, preferring that to watching Mass virtually.  Church attendance along with shopping for seniors at a local grocery store in the 7-8 am timeframe has helped them maneuver through 2020.

Peg Malone Fisher enjoys life in Kure Beach where she walks most days and is grateful for the children and grandchildren who visit often.  The library has remained open so she, like most of us, filled the year with reading.  What Peg misses is her volunteer work at the library and at nursing homes.  She has three weddings which were postponed from last year and is looking forward to them along with the arrival of a fifth great grandchild in March.  She was hoping for a St. Patrick’s Day baby.

Marcia Mazzuchi Shannon found a new meaning for peace in these pandemic months with fewer pressures and the incorporation of technology in our lives:  telephone appointments replacing clinic visits; committee meetings and exercise classes accessed via Zoom; streaming theater and concerts. “In short, there is time to think, to reflect, to place our inner lives in order and all from one place:  Home. What pleases us most are the small acts of kindness:  younger friend’s grocery shopping for us; Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners delivered; a telephone call asking ‘How are you doing?’”  The highlight of 2020 for Marcia and her husband was the celebration of their 60th wedding anniversary on New Year’s Eve.  “Locked down, but undaunted, we loaded several cases of bubbly in a condo shopping cart (John in his dad’s 85-year-old tux and me in my best) and went up and down the floors of our building, knocking on doors and inviting friends to join us in a virtual toast later that evening.  It was the best party we ever gave, capped by a family Zoom celebration.”

Celia Geoghan Scully, after living in Reno, Nevada for nearly 50 years – many of those as a non-fiction writer – moved to a senior living complex in Boise, Idaho, to be closer to her daughter and family.  She was surprised to find a vibrant arts community in Boise.  Since Ceila had begun writing poetry the year before, it was a gift to find poetry workshops, readings and noted guest speakers within a five-mile radius.  A bright spot in 2020 was receiving recognition for two of her poems from Idaho’s two literary organizations.  Celia keeps in touch with Helen Brady Crowley, but has lost touch with other classmates and would love to hear from any, especially that writing poetry. 2020 marked the end of a multi-year research project for Pat Cardamone Guida, in which she documented the life of Levin Still and his wife Sidney/Charity in Caroline County, Md., where both were enslaved. Levin was given his freedom, but Sidney took matters into her own hands and escaped to New Jersey where the family grew and prospered.  Pat continues to do research for the Caroline County Historical Society from her home in Pottstown, PA where she now lives in spacious apartment which is a five-minute walk from a son, his wife and the youngest “Mumsi” child, Victor.  Pat’s other children are scattered about in America and Germany.  She sends love to all the “Trinity ladies and sweet remembrance of those we have lost.   We may be the only true ladies left.  I wince at the mangled womanhood of the net and the telly.”

Sis Heffernan Shay, after ten long months of doctor’s visits, is on the mend and is moving to a senior living facility close to her youngest son Joe.  Her other six children are scattered all over the country and Sis hopes that with the Covid vaccinations she will be able to travel to see them. She keeps in touch with Ann Hayes Cleary who lives in California. 2020 saw a move for back North for Jean Hurley Bernhart who wrote that after 22 years in Florida it was a shock to watch 18 inches of snow pile up on her patio. Jean has a new great granddaughter born in Tyler, TX, and after the second vaccination, she plans to travel to meet her.  Jean plays bridge online, which was a wonderful activity during 2020.  “Finally, all those hours in the smoker at Trinity are paying off.”

Also moving soon is Sr. Benedicta Change who will be leaving the Sisters of Notre Dame residence in Stevenson, MD, for their residence in Cincinnati.

Nancy Crecca Schaefer “moved” during 2020 for five months.  Her children wanted her out “of the big city” so she stayed in Frederick, MD with her son Henry and his wife Beth for three months, then her son-in-law Rich drove down from New Hampshire in his orange pickup truck and took her to Concord where she remained with daughter Susan and Rich for another two months. “I really enjoyed living with them since living alone in an apartment can get very boring.  Now that I have the two shots social life is improving daily.”  Nancy volunteers one day a week at the Christ Child Opportunity shop in D.C. Like Nancy, Eileen Denney McLaughlin lived with her son John during the early days of the pandemic and now resides at Gwynedd Estates in Ambler, PA, where she is able to enjoy frequent visits from her family. Other classmates commented on activities that helped them cope with the pandemic.

Ann Horbett Groshek enjoyed short hikes with friends during the year and did occasional workouts at her gym in spite of having to wear masks, which cut down on the air. Like most of us, reading was an important part of life during 2020. Having had two vaccinations, she plans to attend her granddaughter’s wedding in July.

Judy Ryther Macher continues her “one of a kind necklace business” and recently was asked to be at the Carmelites church basement two weekends in a row, which netted $1200 for the Carmelites. With two vaccinations she is ready to return to a lifestyle which will let her and Helen Crowley Brady enjoy lunch in New York again.

Maureen (Pudgy) Malone Quine lost her husband Bob in July who died at a nursing home five minutes away. She was with Bob at the end but due to covid restrictions had only seen him once since last March.  There was no funeral and Maureen missed “all the rituals that make grieving a little bearable.”  Her family keeps growing with nine grandchildren and three great grandchildren and two more on the way.  Covid restrictions have prevented Maureen from tutoring at the prison and she misses that greatly.

Ellen Daley Prokop’s grandson Matthew was involved in a horrendous car accident which resulted in severe brain damage.  After spending 104 days in two separate hospitals, he was released, followed by months of therapy. He was able to return to college this semester.  “Our walking miracle.”  Shortly after his accident, Ellen fell and wound up with a compression fracture in her spine.  After months of wearing a brace, she is back to “normal – whatever that is.” Her husband Mike celebrated his 90th birthday with a drive-by party arranged by one of their granddaughters – complete with a local fire truck and neighbors waving balloons.

Mary Margaret Collins O’Brien wrote that in addition to being the year of the pandemic, for her it was the year of the “Bionic Woman”.  She acquired a new hip in February and had already had both knees replaced.  One of the highlights of her recuperation following the hip surgery was a thick envelope of get-well letters from her daughter’s third grade class.

Mary Curtin Smith is recovering with physical therapy for a leg which she broke before Thanksgiving.  Mary is grateful that her daughter lives a few doors down the street from her.

Annette:  Also, had 2020 compounded with health issues.  In March I was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma and was treated with chemo for six months.  My children quarantined themselves and one of them was with me for each treatment. Prior to the final chemo treatment, while visiting with my son Brian and daughter- in- law at the summer home in St Michaels, MD, I experienced severe abdominal pain and had emergency surgery at a hospital in Easton, MD where I spent two weeks in recovery. The chemo had caused a perforation of the small intestine which necessitated the surgical procedure.   A PET scan in December showed that I am free of cancer – a great Christmas gift.  Happily, I can now resume volunteer work with the Ignatian Volunteer Corps and with the Care for Our Common Home team in our parish where we work at the parish level and with other parishes in the diocese in activities in response to the papal encyclical “Laudato Si’”.

Ruthann here!  Major kudos to Annette for taking on this fun but challenging job.  Due to vision issues I no longer drive but with my three morning a week caregiver and much family support from six of the eight in the area and two in NC, I’ve managed to stay in my little house.  I’ve discovered audio books, local reading sources and daily Mass from Toronto.  I was able to get Easter Mass and reveled in the liturgy, flowers and music.  Zoom book club and a prayer group also help my outreach ministry.  I am hiring my techie granddaughter to get me started with Gmail and will continue to send out occasional blasts.  (Pat Daley gets the super sleuth award for dedication in tracking all your “greenies”.) Peace and good health be with you dearest friends.  God is good!

 

In Memoriam:  

Dorothy Brown, Gloria (Ditto) Ford, Helen May, Mary Ann Paganelli, Hope Savage, Connie Sippel

May they live in the presence of the Trinity eternally.

2021

An email from Catherine Dawson succinctly answered our question about how you lived out 2020:  “No cinema, no concerts, no grandkids’ graduations.  More reading, more praying, more sleeping!” Many of you echoed her words, with a few twists.

Anne Carusone Landry looked at the year 2020 with gratitude. Grateful for more time with her one and only grandson and his mother, her only daughter. Apart from that blessing, she washed her curtains twice, painted the wrought iron furniture on her antique oriental carpet, and listed other cleaning and painting and yardwork projects as pandemic activities. Pat Smith Daley notes what a challenging year it has been, but that she has been supported by a son and daughter living in the area and celebrated her 89th birthday in February at an Irish pub with her daughter and grandson. She is grateful to still be living in her house but misses daily Mass and coffee with friends afterwards. A granddaughter was married in Tampa in October and through the wonders of livestream she was able to watch the ceremony. A great sadness was the loss of a son-in-law to lung and bone cancer. Margaret “Peggy” Inglesby Greenslade, too, is grateful to have three of their four children living within an hour’s drive and for a new great-granddaughter born on January 30, 2021 – a gift following 2020 – bringing their great grandchildren to a total of three. She and her husband go to Mass in the parish church three times a week, preferring that to watching Mass virtually. Church attendance along with shopping for seniors at a local grocery store has helped them maneuver through 2020. Margaret “Peg” Malone Fisher enjoys life in Kure Beach where she walks most days and is grateful for the children and grandchildren who visit often. The library has remained open so she, like most of us, filled the year with reading.  What Peg misses is her volunteer work at the library and at nursing homes.  She has three weddings which were postponed from last year and is looking forward to them along with the arrival of a fifth great grandchild in March. She was hoping for a St. Patrick’s Day baby.

Marcia Mazzuchi Shannon found a new meaning for peace in these pandemic months with fewer pressures and the incorporation of technology in our lives. Telephone appointments replacing clinic visits, committee meetings and exercise classes accessed via Zoom, and streaming theater and concerts. “In short, there is time to think, to reflect, to place our inner lives in order and all from one place, Home. What pleases us most are the small acts of kindness. Younger friends grocery shopping for us, Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners delivered, a telephone call asking ‘How are you doing?’”. The highlight of 2020 for Marcia and her husband was the celebration of their 60 year wedding anniversary on New Year’s Eve. “Locked down, but undaunted, we loaded several cases of bubbly in a condo shopping cart (John in his dad’s 85 year old tux and me in my best) and went up and down the floors of our building, knocking on doors and inviting friends to join us in a virtual toast later that evening. It was the best party we ever gave, capped by a family Zoom celebration.”

 

Marcia Mazzuchi Shannon and her
husband celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary

Changes marked the year for others. Celia Geoghan Scully, after living in Reno, Nevada for nearly 50 years, many of those as a non-fiction writer, moved to a senior living complex in Boise, Idaho, to be closer to her daughter and family. She was surprised to find a vibrant arts community in Boise. Since Ceila had begun writing poetry the year before, it was a gift to find poetry workshops, readings and noted guest speakers within a five mile radius. A bright spot in 2020 was receiving recognition for two of her poems from Idaho’s two literary organizations. Celia keeps in touch with Helen Brady Crowley, but has lost touch with other classmates and would love to hear from any, especially those writing poetry. You can reach Celia at  dangaplus@gmail.com.

2020 marked the end of a multi-year research project for Patricia “Pat” Cardamone Guida, in which she documented the life of Levin Still and his wife Sidney Charity in Caroline County, MD, where both were enslaved. Levin was given his freedom, but Sidney took matters into her own hands and escaped to New Jersey where the family grew and prospered. Pat continues to do research for the Caroline County Historical Society from her home in Pottstown, PA where she now lives in a spacious apartment. It is a five minute walk from a son, his wife and the youngest “Mumsi” child, Victor. Pat’s other children are scattered about in America and Germany. She sends love to all the “Trinity ladies and sweet remembrance of those we have lost. We may be the only true ladies left. I wince at the mangled womanhood of the net and the telly.”

Elizabeth “Sis” Heffernan Shay, after ten long months of doctor’s visits, is on the mend and is moving to a senior living facility close to her youngest son, Joe. Her other six children are scattered all over the country and Sis hopes that with the COVID vaccinations she will be able to travel to see them. She keeps in touch with Anne Hayes Cleary who lives in California.

2020 saw a move for back north for Jean Hurley Bernhart who wrote that after 22 years in Florida, it was a shock to watch 18 inches of snow pile up on her patio. Jean has a new great granddaughter born in Tyler, TX and after the second vaccination she plans to travel to meet her. Jean plays bridge online, which was a wonderful activity during 2020. “Finally, all those hours in the smoker at Trinity are paying off.”  Also moving soon is Sr. Benedicta E. Chang, who will be leaving the Sisters of Notre Dame residence in Stevenson, MD for their residence in Cincinnati.

Nancy Crecca Schaefer “moved” during 2020 for five months. Her children wanted her out “of the big city” so she stayed in Frederick, MD with her son Henry and his wife Beth for three months. Then her son-in-law Rich drove down from New Hampshire in his orange pickup truck and took her to Concord where she remained with daughter Susan and Rich for another two months. “I really enjoyed living with them since living alone in an apartment can get very boring. Now that I have the two shots, social life is improving daily.”  Nancy volunteers one day a week at the Christ Child Opportunity shop in DC. Like Nancy, Eileen Denney McLaughlin lived with her son John during the early days of the pandemic and now resides in Ambler, PA where she is able to enjoy frequent visits from her family.

Other classmates commented on activities that helped them cope with the pandemic. Ann Horbett Groshek enjoyed short hikes with friends during the year and did occasional workouts at her gym in spite of having to wear masks. Like most of us, reading was an important part of life during 2020. Having had two vaccinations she plans to attend her granddaughter’s wedding in July. Julia “Judy” Ryther Macher continues her “one of a kind necklace business” and recently was asked to be at the Carmelites church basement two weekends in a row, which netted $1200 for the Carmelites. With two vaccinations, she is ready to return to a lifestyle which will let her and Helen Brady Crowley enjoy lunch in New York again.

In addition to the pandemic, the year brought other difficulties and challenges to some.  Maureen “Pudgy” Malone Quine lost her husband Bob in July who died at a nursing home five minutes away. She was with Bob at the end but due to COVID restrictions, she had only seen him once since last March. There was no funeral and Maureen missed “all the rituals that make grieving a little bearable.”  Her family keeps growing with nine grandchildren, three great grandchildren and two more on the way. COVID restrictions have prevented Maureen from tutoring at the prison and she misses that greatly.

Health concerns, apart from the coronavirus, dominated the year for others. Ellen Daley Prokop’s grandson Matthew was involved in a horrendous car accident which resulted in severe brain damage. After spending 104 days in two separate hospitals, he was released, followed by months of therapy. He was able to return to college this semester.  “Our walking miracle.” Shortly after his accident, Ellen fell and wound up with a compression fracture in her spine. After months of wearing a brace, she is back to “normal, whatever that is.” Her husband Mike celebrated his 90th birthday with a drive-by party arranged by one of their granddaughters complete with a local fire truck and neighbors waving balloons. Margaret Mary Collins O’Brien, wrote that in addition to being the year of the pandemic, for her it was the year of the “bionic woman”. She acquired a new hip in February and had already had both knees replaced.  One of the highlights of her recuperation following the hip surgery was a thick envelope of get well letters from her daughter’s third grade class. Mary Curtin Smith is recovering with physical therapy for a leg which she broke before Thanksgiving. Mary is grateful that her daughter lives a few doors down the street from her.

I, Annette Pieslak Kane, have also had 2020 compounded with health issues. In March, I was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins lymphoma and was treated with chemo for six months. My children quarantined themselves and one of them was with me for each treatment. Prior to the final chemo treatment, while visiting with my son Brian and daughter-in-law at the summer home in St Michaels, MD,  I experienced severe abdominal pain and had emergency surgery at a hospital in Easton, MD where I spent two weeks in recovery. The chemo had caused a perforation of the small intestine which necessitated the surgical procedure. A PET scan in December showed that I am free of cancer, a great Christmas gift. Happily, I can now resume volunteer work with the Ignatian Volunteer Corps and with the Care for Our Common Home team in our parish where we work at the parish level and with other parishes in the diocese in activities in response to the papal encyclical “Laudato Si’”.

Ruthann Twomey Arnsberger here!  Major kudos to Annette for taking on this fun but challenging job. Due to vision issues, I no longer drive but with my three day a week morning caregiver, and much family support from six of the eight in the area and two in NC, I’ve managed to stay in my little house. I’ve discovered audio books, local reading sources and daily Mass from Toronto. I was able to get Easter Mass and reveled in the liturgy, flowers and music. Zoom book club and a prayer group also help my outreach ministry. I am hiring my techie granddaughter to get me started with gmail and will continue to send out occasional blasts. (Patricia “Pat” Smith Daley gets the super sleuth award for dedication in tracking all you “greenies”.) Peace and good health be with you dearest friends. God is good!

Annette Kane provided and update on June 16th that Ruthann Arnsberger has passed. May we remember her amazing spirit and heart.

Ruthann Twomey Arnsberger and Annette Pieslak Kane

In Memoriam:  Dorothy Elizabeth Brown Bundschuh, Gloria “Ditto” Ford Murphy, Helen O’Neill May, Mary Ann Paganelli Lee, Hope Savage Crawley, and Carolyn “Connie” Sippel Daugherty.

May they live in the presence of the Trinity eternally.

2018

Dear Best Friends of the Green,

Our request for challenges and growth over the past year seems to have resulted in many health challenges as we mark our 85th year.

Ann Horbett Groshek still manages her hikes, but confesses to being happy she is still vertical. She keeps her mind sharp with book club and Sudoku. Pat Keeler Bader enjoys her new condo, but has had to resign herself to using a cane and not being able to get into NYC for theater and volunteering at the Met. Gloria “Ditto” Ford Murphy and George have had a bad health year with too many hospital stays, but are now on a walker and cane respectively and moving along.

We have lost three of our own this past year: our class president Alice Dargan Clark, Kay Hickey Lauler and Cathy Clony McGoldrick. We fondly remember Alice’s leadership of our class, Kay’s devotion to the Sodality and Cathy’s beautiful smile and many kindnesses to all. May they Rest in Peace. Drink ’em Down!

Pat Smith Daley speaks of her greatest challenge as being the death of husband Mick in October. He was buried with full military honors, flag draped, horse-drawn caisson and all, at Arlington Cemetery in February. Her thought for all of us. “May the power, wisdom and love make us Trinity strong.” Irma Fiol Alvarez continues to take care of beloved husband Tito, and as far as growth is concerned, “I am shrinking with age!”

Sister Benedicta Chang, SND, tells us that Pat Sullivan Wilson is also grieving for her husband Chris, as well as Mary Curtin Smith for Bernie. Sister Benedicta had a lovely lunch with Mary and Connie Sippel Daugherty who lives in the Baltimore area.

We have some still very active classmates also. Mary McLaughlin Bedard rides her beloved horse, Missy, for an hour three to four days a week. She also brushes and grooms her and she is the light of her life, aside from her sports-minded grandchildren, of course. Mary continues her weekly visits to a local nursing home. Nancy Thompson Jackson notes that she and Jim are in good health, though not as vigorous. As she wrote, though, he was just off to go skiing.

Judy Ryther Majcher continues with her jewelry business and was off for a 50th anniversary cruise in Australia and New Zealand. Ellen Daly Prokop keeps busy with family visits, her music, and books. Carol Aiken Preece enjoys bragging about her five great grands – all through her daughter’s line.

The DC local greens, Pat Daley, MM O’Brien, Jean Connell, Annette Kane, Nancy Crecca Schaefer, Anne Landry, Barbara Bemis Sullivan, Ruthann Arnsberger and guest Helen O’Neill May met at the Irish Inn to toast our long friendships. Helen May had us roaring at her tales of the residents at the retired citizens home where she now lives. It has been a difficult year for Helen moving from much loved DC area to Richmond to be near family. She eventually realized she had to learn her way around, make friends and get active. She has found 20 good Catholic friends who enjoy each other’s company and she is happy now with the community at Cedarfield.

Nancy Schaefer has moved to a centrally located high rise in northwest DC. She and Barbara Sullivan still volunteer at the Christ Child Society Opportunity Shop in Georgetown. Barbara enjoys her book club, as do many other respondents.

Dottie O’Brien Meisenzahl and husband continue to enjoy life in an independent living residence and she helps husband Bill with his memory issues. Children and grandchildren living nearby are an added bonus. A beautiful email came from Larry Kinch, husband of Sue Upthegrove Kinch, which tells of Sue in a nursing home. He reads all of our Trinity emails to her and she seems to enjoy them.

Roseanne Flaherty Madden says so many body parts not working well, so she calls this their armchair year. However, they are still managing to physically work in appropriate ways. They especially enjoyed watching the Olympic curling competitions from their armchairs, being long time enthusiasts of the sport. Peggy Inglesby Greenslade also noted slowing down to help husband Johnny more, but she continues to volunteer at Open Arms, an ecumenical group consisting of many local church volunteers who provide support and aid in many ways as an alternative to abortion.

We still have many other active volunteers such as Anne Carusone Landry, who has just completed a 14 year stint with St. Jude’s Hospital Gala, preceded by many years of volunteering with the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Anne was in charge of procuring auction items. She asks that you remember in your prayers her son Jimmy, who is in need of a heart transplant.

Maureen “Pudgy” Malone Quine continues with her prison ministry, helping the inmates work toward high school diplomas. She is also an advocate for more education for the prisoners, but calls it an uphill battle and a real challenge.

Hope Savage Crawley still does her weekly volunteer work at the Salvation Army overseeing showers for the homeless and visiting with them, as well. She is also at the YMCA frequently exercising as it is important for her medical care.

Anne Denison Morgan DeAcetis, despite her blindness, wrote a beautiful email about the challenges of being the very senior member of the search committee for her Episcopal church to find a new rector. Anne helped go through 50 applicants’ resumes, winnowing it down to three. From there, the committee visited each of the finalist’s parishes, and then had the candidates visit their church to meet the parishioners. Anne was happy with their ultimate selection.

Margaret Mary Collins O’Brien spends her time with family as the top priority. She has two younger brothers with whom she keeps in close touch, as well as her many other extended family members. MM still enjoys light gardening and scrapbooking for her only granddaughter. She tries to be a patriotic citizen through her shopping sprees to support the economy.

To quote Jean Perry Connell: “At this time in my life, it IS my family that I am most focused on. Outside interests are less meaningful. It is in my family that continuous efforts can bring results. It is in my family that my influence can support change. My greatest challenge is to have the patience and grace to wait for this to occur.”

Peg Malone Fisher has had a rough flu winter, but offers some thoughts on the challenges we face as we age. “We must reinvent ourselves, but also accept the challenge. So many of those near and dear are either suffering or have died, and we must appreciate that we have our religion to help us on our way. We must pray for the future of our children, grandchildren and the whole world.”

This is from another classmate who prefers to remain anonymous, but also has words of wisdom for us all. “Our lives have had challenges and tragedies, which we have met as best we can and we still must maintain a sense of hope and some humor. We are blessed with curiosity which has kept us growing through the years.”

From Annette Pieslak Kane: “The most fulfilling work I am currently doing is serving as co-chair of the Care for Our Common Home team in my parish. This work is an outgrowth of a study of ‘Laudato Si,’ Pope Francis’ encyclical on the environment. We are trying to implement the Pope’s call to care for creation through education on environmental issues in our community; fostering spirituality in prayer for the environment (we hosted an ecumenical prayer service during the Season of Creation); advocacy at state and national levels; and sustainability projects. Environmental activities contribute to my commitment to the Ignatian Volunteer Corps, which engages retired persons in work for the poor, in study, reflection and retreats. I also continue to serve as accompanist for the parish Resurrection Choir, which sings at all funerals – a beautiful ministry to grieving families. Like all of us, I face the bodily challenges that go with our age, but am grateful for a yoga class to help maintain balance and flexibility. I get great joy from continued piano study and even played in a recital last spring – the only performer over the age of 17! I cherish visits with friends, and like most of us, miss those dear friends who are no longer part of our lives.”

I, too, have faced challenges this past year from health issues that have slowed me down. I moved from a very busy life of volunteering to a quieter one of keeping in touch with folks via phone and prayer. I manage to participate in art appreciation classes (to my regret, I never took Dr. Ellinger’s art history courses), plus occasional lunch dates and book club meetings. I am trying to practice patience, courage, and hope.

From the founder of the Sisters Notre Dame de Namur order St. Julie Billiart: “My prayer is that the good God may establish His absolute reign in your heart and those of all.”

PS: Don’t forget May 31-June 2, 2019, will be our 65th Reunion at Trinity. Chairs Jean Connell and Nancy Schaefer urge you to mark your calendars for another grand party celebrating our long standing friendships. It will be a wonderful opportunity to tour the new Payden Academic Center, which is such a light filled educational building of which to be proud.

Hugs and God’s special blessings to all!

Ruthann Twomey Arnsberger

2015

Dear Best Friends from the Class of 1954:

So many of the 27 who returned for Reunion in May remarked on the wonderful opportunity to re-connect with friends and, in many cases, get to know other classmates better. We still remain a very caring, faith-filled, collegial and grateful group despite continuing health issues. I am amazed at your energy for volunteering, be it in the community or your church, and that you are always thankful for your many blessings even in the hard times. I sincerely think this is a “Trinity thing” which we have carried along with us these 64 years.

Genevieve “Jean” Perry Connell expressed it beautifully while re-reading Christmas card messages of perseverance and hope that filled her heart. Her advice: “hold on to your joy.” She and Jim are healthy and she continues to work two days a week because she loves what she does. She is a clinical social worker doing individual and couples therapy. She plays bridge weekly with Nancy Crecca Schaefer and Helen O’ Neill May, who called in her greetings and to say she is alive, well and always ready for lunch with the bunch. The DC Metro-area lunch bunch lost three of
its members this year. Mary Gorman Lawler died in June after a lengthy and courageous bout with cancer. ClaireBiberstein Kendall died in July and Rosemary “Rosie” Greenslade Belson died in November. Claire was a day hop who did not graduate with us, but was a Trinity legacy, as her mother had been a student there also. Rosie was very fragile at the Reunion luncheon, but loved being with so many of her best friends. Rosie died after a long period of
decline. Our local Trinity classmates turned out to pay special tribute to her, as did the homilists and the family members with their moving and frequently funny memories.

Ann Horbett Groshek and Mike came back for Reunion. Ann had just had surgery in April. She and her sister Rita Horbett Burns ’55 went down to Ocean City, MD, to check out their old haunts – though only the beach is the same! Ann and Mike continue to do volunteer work and spent time hiking last summer in Mallorca and Germany with UK and American friends.

Pat Smith Daley and Mick celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary and Mick’s 85th birthday last fall. They continue to travel to many of Mick’s Army reunions all over the country. Pat, of course, was our Reunion chair, along with Anne Carusone Landry, and they did their usual organized and flawless job of keeping us all on time and focused. The dinner in Social Hall was especially lovely as we were able to just drift in after the reception on the front lawn, look
at the site for the new academic building near the library and enjoy a delicious dinner with classmates and spouses. Now that we are a 60th Reunion class we were guests of Trinity! Anne has volunteered for five years for the St. Jude’s Gala Committee. She enjoyed having Elizabeth “Sis” Heffernan Shay spend Reunion weekend with her also.
Ellen Daley Prokop and Mike are still enjoying retirement in NC but Ellen found Reunion somewhat bittersweet. She enjoyed being with so many good friends but wondered how many would still be with us in 2019. Ellen has had many health problems but felt blessed to have her whole family together for Thanksgiving.

Peggy Inglesby Greenslade and John have sold their beautiful “camp” at Schroon Lake and are full time in Glen Falls, NY, quite near sons Michael and John. She keeps in touch with Pat Keeler Bader, who probably has moved to a co-op with elevator in Bronxville when you read this. Peggy and John’s great sorrow is the loss of his only sibling, Rosie,
who fought so long and is now at peace.

Peg Malone Fisher wrote with the sad news of Frank’s death in July after a wonderful Father’s Day celebration with all of the family. Six of her children are within five to six hours of Peg in Kure Beach and she plans to do some traveling to keep up with family and some of those 27 grandchildren. She wants us to know that she was with us in spirit at Reunion.

There was a hilarious email from Pat Cardamone Guida way out in Idaho. Her four children live far apart but get together with mom, siblings and Pat’s mumsey children for skiing in Idaho. At my request Pat identified the “mumsey” children, since she had no role in mothering them, as grands (she eschews the G word): nieces, nephews or anyone else close to the family. She is currently engrossed in researching the Underground Railroad on the Eastern Shore and particularly William Still, an abolitionist from there, who interviewed slaves in Philadelphia as they passed through. She is preparing to send her findings to the Historical Society. She researches anything else that piques her interest. Music remains a major factor in her life, especially the Bee Gees and the Brandenburg Concerti. The latter makes her think of Maureen Armstrong Allegaert, her beauty and grace, who mentioned that she loved the Brandenburg Concerti. I wonder if Maureen remembers that.

Cathy Dawson keeps in touch with Maureen and Cathy Cloney McGoldrick for lunch. Cathy says her life is same old, same old, and she stays busy with friends, travel, family and reading. Maureen and Win also enjoy lectures, exhibits, concerts, operas and daily walks in the city.

Margaret Mary “MM” Collins O’Brien loves trying to keep up with her pride and joy and only grandchild, Erin, who is a freshman at a Catholic high school in Virginia. MM is in an independent living complex in Silver Spring and likes visiting
with her neighbors in the court. She was unable to come to Reunion but did have a nice visit down memory lane with Rosie at her Annapolis home last last summer. Her “volunteering” is family-based as she is the matriarch of a very large Irish family and keeps them all connected and in line somehow.

Carol Aiken Preece’s pride and joys are her three great-grands, children of her daughter Maura Preece Young ’81. She wishes you could tell the gender from their names, Hadley, Barrett and Graeme, though thinks there might be a Graeme in the Celtic calendar. That is two boys and one girl, you figure it out. She is in to genetic genealogy and is planning a European train trip with an English friend in the summer.

Mary Healy Deely retired from the front desk of a Wellesley real estate firm after 20 years. Since she still has not needed repair work on hips, knees or eyes, she is celebrating by travelling to Ireland, Boothbay Harbor, ME, and is taking a winter trip to Naples, FL. She volunteers at Rosie’s Place, a women’s shelter nearby.

Helen Brady Crowley, Janet O’ Leary Clement and Joan Sullivan all remarked on how much they enjoyed coming back for Reunion, turning back the clock and catching up with old friends. Helen and Janet were part of my sleuth team with Helen finding Marcia Mazzuchi Shannon. Janet and Paul also just celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary and love spending family time at their cabin in New Hampshire. Janet sent a lovely front porch picture with Armelle Simoneau Gormley, both as tiny as ever.

Marcia and Janet, as Canadian residents, often miss Trinity communications – extra postage required – so I was thrilled to find Marcia in Kingston, Ontario, a town with two universities and an international heritage site as well. She sent a lengthy bio, which must be condensed, unfortunately. She and John are enjoying retirement in a condo overlooking Lake Ontario. She is a retired librarian and keeps busy with designing gardens – her business is named Marcia’s Path. She serves on the music program for the oncology ward of her local hospital, on the arts committee and enjoys pottery. John’s sister, Pat Shannon ’53, was Class Song Leader.

Dottie O’Brien Meisenzahl and Bill are also enjoying independent living and socializing in a housing facility of about 100 in Burlington, VT. Their daughter in New York has recently become engaged to a young Irish man and the family is excited about wedding plans.

Maggie Kenney Berkey has moved to a retirement community in nearby Philadelphia and enjoys the concerts, poetry nights, activities and, most of all, having meals prepared and cleaned up for her.

She roomed with Diane Cusolito Moonan for Reunion and they both remarked on how alert and able we all are at 80-plus. Maggie’s mother, Class of 1920, was scribe for her class and Maggie remembers the flap when her mother was trying to put it all together. (Scribe’s note: It’s much easier now that we have email, but still so hard to condense and edit while still capturing the spirit.)

Eileen Denney McLaughlin reports that 2014 was a happy year for her, with two family weddings which required her to just attend and enjoy, several great vacations and Reunion. She plans to meet Sis Heffernan ShayFrancesca“Sisti” Rokosz and Maggie Kenney Berkey for a St. Patrick’s Day drink ’em down lunch.

Hope Savage Crawley notes there is so much to read, but it’s now or never. She hosts a bi-weekly book group that has enjoyed reading Pope Francis’s On Heaven and Earth. Hope volunteers at the Salvation Army once a week, working with the homeless and helping them get showers and fresh clothes. “It is a privilege to get to know them and I even hear some of their success stories.” She reports that Mary McLaughlin Bedard, with her quiet sense of humor, is busy with church work and rides her horse daily.

Anne Denison Morgan-DeAcetis mentioned that old age is not like just sitting on the porch swing as she visualized it. She stays young with church work, audiobooks and travel.

Flo Philbin Dowling says she and Bill lurch around on their walkers, work hard driving their children crazy by not answering texts promptly and demanding emergency help for new apps and, most importantly, commenting on their grands’ lifestyles.

Irma Fiol de Alvarez and Tony spend September and October in Spain, May and November in Gainesville, FL, and the rest of the time in Puerto Rico. They have a senior residence at University of Florida, Gainesville and are quite comfortable with the many friends they have made there. When the time comes to say goodbye to Puerto Rico that is where they will live permanently. The situation is very difficult for Puerto Rican citizens, as taxes are very high and the best-educated young people are moving to the United States at the rate of 100,000 a year. This could be alleviated if Puerto Rico could become a state, but meanwhile the businesses that cannot move are heavily taxed.

Roseanne “Flag” Flaherty Madden and John like their new living space in Winnetka and treasure each day they have together. Inspired by the Trinity reminder, Flag is going to use the life and death of Sr. Dorothy Stang, SND, as an example of a contemporary martyr with a group she belongs to. Unfortunately, there are currently too many choices.

Julia “Judy” Ryther Majcher went from Reunion to Paris, Sri Lanka, Java, Bali, Hanoi and Shanghai before returning to California. She designs and makes one-of-a-kind necklaces sold for the benefit of local Catholic charities. She loves incorporating beads and designs from her travels into the jewelry.

Dottie Gorman Dwyer stays busy as the grandmother attending the children’s games and school functions. When Hailey (6) said her corporal work of mercy would be to “clothe the naked,” a few eyebrows went up. Her reply: “I always pick out my brother’s (3) clothes.” Dottie raves about granddaughter Alyssa Kahr, a dedicated nursing student at DeSales University.

Ellie McDonough Good is a lawyer whose job, for 32 years, was conducting in-person, telephone and on the record Medicare B Hearings for beneficiaries and providers dissatisfied with the processing of their claims. “I would say that 75% percent of my work was with beneficiaries.”

Mary Curtin Smith and Bernie spent some winter time in FL and are thankful for Bernie’s recovery.

Our dear Sr. Benedicta Chang was honored as a diamond Jubilarian at a celebration of her 60 years of service to the Church as a Sister of Notre Dame de Namur. When she came to Trinity in 1950, “it was my first experience in a Catholic school and I was enchanted! I loved the atmosphere, the daily Mass, the practices and devotions. I was inspired by the Sisters. I have taught mostly art in schools in South Carolina, Pennsylvania, the District of Columbia and Maryland for 42 years. I am grateful to God for the gift of life. My dream of service has been fulfilled many times over. My gratitude to God extends to all my family and friends who are part of my life, and I ask God’s blessing on them all.” (Scribe’s note: The foregoing sentiments are from Benedicta’s thoughts as expressed in the order’s Endeavor magazine honoring the celebrants.)

Sis Heffernan Shay remembers Reunion as a time that makes one realize how blessed our lives have been. She can still navigate the airports to see her six far-flung families and feels fortunate to have her youngest son nearby. Love and prayers for all those not feeling up-to-par.

Anne Hayes Cleary writes the best Christmas cards. She reviewed her past 80-plus years. From running boards to rumble seat rides to changed meaning of words, “a mouse was an animal you didn’t want in your house to…grass was something you mowed…and a chip was a piece of wood!” She says she is doing some writing. I hope she will share it with us.

Jennifer Chazal Watson and Jim are all settled into a condo close to their daughter Joanie near Warrington, VA. They hope to be snow birds at some point this winter. Sisty Rokosz Farley lives in Swarthmore, which means she can get together more and do lunch and catch-up with Sis.

From Annette Pieslak Kane: “It was wonderful to see so many classmates at Reunion and to recognize that, in spite of the passage of years, the divergence of paths and the geographical distances, there is still a bond of common experience and shared lives that keeps us close to one another.”

Like so many of us, my days are filled with various volunteer activities – tutoring through the Literacy Council, preparing meals for the homeless and serving as accompanist for the parish Resurrection Choir, which provides music for funerals (50 funerals this past year!). I also study piano and am in a French conversation group. I belong to a neighborhood book club and another one in the parish. The latter has introduced me to some challenging books in theology. Outings and gatherings with my children and grandchildren bring great joy to my life. One special trip was accompanying daughter Paula (who is now a full professor at the University of Pittsburgh) to Holy Cross College where she gave a lecture on her recently published book and where granddaughter Marie Therese is a freshman. Some of Paula’s former professors came to hear her presentation and I had the delight in seeing them again and also meeting my granddaughter’s friends. It was a great cross-generation experience.

It was a thrill for me to attend a Trinity-sponsored chamber concert by the National Symphony Orchestra as part of the NSO in Your Neighborhood, Brookland to NOMA (North of Massachusetts Avenue is a booming area!). It was held in the Chapel, with its wonderful acoustics, and the Duke Ellington School of the Arts brass ensemble joined with the NSO for the performance. There were many neighborhood folks and alums there. A reception with hot chocolate and cookies in Social Hall followed. It was such a nice mix of ages and interests and an opportunity for Trinity to show off a bit.

Another year of gathering has been almost as much fun as the first. I am amazed at the dedication, spirit and caring you all mention. So many continue to volunteer in their parish and community and stay busy with book clubs, gardening, reading and enjoying life. I remain blessed with good health and enough energy and mental focus to try to keep up with my ever-increasing family and volunteer work. My great thanks to Annette who has proof-read this letter countless times and made it English-major-perfect, I hope. Stay well and the Lord’s best blessings to you all!

Ruthann Twomey Arnsberger

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1954 In Memoriam

Ruthann (Twomey) Arnsberger

Ruthann Twomey Arnsberger, Age 88, of Silver Spring, MD passed away on June 14, 2021. Beloved wife of the late Donald Arnsberger; mother of Peter Arnsberger, Madonna Gambrell (Eric Heller), Mark Arnsberger (Julie), Matthew Arnsberger (Christine), Julie Moore (Robert), Gretchen Hays (Christopher), Karen Brustad (Peter) and Paul Arnsbegrer (Kay). Also survived by 19 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

Read Ruthann Arnsberger’s obituary at lagacy.com.

Dorothy (Brown) Bundschuh

Dorothy Brown Bundschuh, age 86, of Rye and Millerton died January 12, 2020 at Noble Horizons in Salisbury. She was the loving wife of the late John J. Bundschuh Jr. Dorothy was born March 1, 1933 in New York the daughter of the late Walter and Lillian
Brown. She graduated from the Ursuline School in New Rochelle and then from Trinity College. Upon graduation, Dorothy became engaged to John Bundschuh and was married on February 11, 1956. They shipped off to Frankfurt in the army reserves almost immediately, an experience that both reflected on as fun and formative in their young marriage. Dorothy was a model for Saks
Fifth Avenue after college and fashion was a lifelong interest.

See Dorothy Bundschuh’s obituary at Kenny Funeral Homes.

 

Ann “Hope” (Savage) Crawley

Anne “Hope” Crawley (nee Savage), beloved mother and grandmother, died peacefully in her home in Montclair on July 24 after a long struggle with Parkinson’s disease. She was 87.

She was with her loving children, Joe and Anne, who cared for her during her difficult illness.

Hope and her late husband Frank were married for 56 years.

Visit Hope Crawley’s obituary at Montclair Local News.

Ann Thompson Jackson

Ann (Nancy) Jackson, 90, died peacefully on March 12, 2024 at her home in Barrington, RI, where she was lovingly cared for by her family.

https://www.providencejournal.com/obituaries/ppvp0753888

Carolyn (Sippel) Daugherty

On November 5, 2020, Carolyn (Connie) M. Daugherty (nee Sippel), died peacefully of heart failure. She was the beloved wife of the late James K. Daugherty; devoted mother of James K. Daugherty (Shelley), Kathleen M. Shagena (Joseph), and Michael S. Daugherty; loving grandmother of Kaitlyn, James and Natalie Daugherty, and Caroline Shagena; cherished sister of John E. Sippel (Helen), and the late Richard L. Sippel (Marie) and the late Robert R. Sippel; dear sister in law of Charles G. Daugherty.

See Carolyn Sippel Daugherty’s obituary at The Baltimore Sun.com.

Gloria (Murphy) Ford

Gloria (Ford) Murphy of Middleboro, passed away at the Good Samaritan Medical Center in Brockton on April 6, 2020 at the age of 87, from complications after a short illness. Formerly of Belmont, Brockton, and Holbrook, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Frances (Skahan) Ford of Belmont. Gloria was the devoted wife of 59 years of George E. Murphy of Middleboro, MA. Gloria was the loving mother of Edward (Nancy) Murphy of Holbrook, MA, Daniel (Terri) Murphy of Woodstock, GA, Christopher (Susan) Murphy of Cranston, RI, Neal (Lorraine) Murphy of Canton, GA, and Julie (Richard) LaFond of Bridgewater, MA. She was the sister of Mary Lou Bowler of Alexandria, VA and the late Joseph Ford. Gloria was also the adoring “Nana” of Brendan, Elizabeth, Erin and Benjamin Murphy, Cheyenne Murphy, Kelsey and Ryan Murphy, Ian and Daelyn Murphy, Mathieu and Paul LaFond.

Visit Gloria Murphy’s obituary at The Boston Globe.com.

Mary Ann (Paganelli) Lee

Mary Ann (Paganelli) Lee passed away on July 18, 2020 at Rivercrest in Concord, MA. A longtime resident of Concord, she was the daughter of Judge Vitale H. Paganelli and Mary (Guarnieri) Paganelli. Her beloved husband, Dr. D. William (Bill) Lee, died in 2012. Mary Ann was born in Yonkers, New York on April 17, 1932 and grew up in nearby Tuckahoe, where she attended Ursuline Academy in New Rochelle. She graduated from Trinity College in Washington, DC. Here she met her future husband when he was stationed as a Marine officer at Quantico. They were married on July 30, 1955. In addition to being a loving mother to their six children, Mary Ann believed in giving back to her community and was involved in many volunteer activities.

Visit Mary Ann Lee’s obituary at TheBostonGlobe.com.

Helen (O’Neill) May

Helen Marie O’Neill May, 88, of Richmond, went to be with the Lord on November 8, 2020. She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 49 years, Albert Edward May Jr.; and her parents, Maurice Francis O’Neill and Helen Sullivan O’Neill. She leaves behind her devoted children, A.E. ‘Ted’ May III (Elizabeth), Nea May Poole (Mike), Alexander J. May (Sara) and Carolyn May McDermott (Jim); siblings, Pat McGinley, Maury O’Neill and Sally Callahan Foley; nine precious grandchildren, as well as many nieces, nephews and friends who will miss her dearly.

Visit Helen May’s obituary at Richmond Times Dispatch.

 

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